Sex is not on the menu because I'm looking for a partner, not a short-order cook. I want someone who's interested in me, not just looking to get their appetite satisfied and leave. I need a connection, conversations that last longer than five minutes, and someone who doesn't treat getting physical like a drive-thru transaction where I'm supposed to be on the menu 24/7. I'm not here to be someone's late-night craving or their boredom fix. I want to build something real first, and if that leads to sex, great—but it's happening when I'm good and ready, not when someone snaps their fingers and expects me to drop my pants like I'm taking an order.